A hour with allien
Sometimes in life we come across weird
guys who would be like aliens. Recently I came across few of them. Yesterday
during a family visit I met him he is around mid 50’s with white neatly ironed khaddar
shirt and trouser. He has comic rectangle face with white hairs all around like
Indira Gandhi. Once I entered sitting hall he was well relaxed and asked me
what are you? Then I thought who the hell he is without knowing name why he is
asking who am I. Then I thought he was inquiring about my profession, and then
I said I am a PhD student. He gave a weird geeky look thinking that why this
man on earth with 25 years is still studying. I was polite and gave a smile and
took a chair and sat comfortably. Another man beside him said that I am from
Biotech background. There it started, after knowing this he started giving me
bull sh** example. There is a boy in his family were he has studied Biotech and
went to US for 5 long years and came back to mother India to do a software job.
He gave this example to make me understand the scenario of biotech field. Immediately smile went away from my face I was
trying very hard to smile for every bloody sentence that he is speaking out. Then I realized that earth is bearing him from
past 50 years for no reason, he has no idea with whom he is speaking and what
he is speaking. Is it right to speak to a person who took science as a religion
and doing some research. At-least he should have an idea that we know all the
ups and downs of this field we are in. Why the hell others do still poke us and our field. If you have some trouble with
the health what the sh** you take in, do you take money came from so called
posh software job or medicine which came from the poor brain of Biotech guy. Do realize the importance of science, especially the science in biology. I immediately
want to reply him that send that guy to me after two years I will hire and give
some job for the studies he has done so long. But I kept quiet for the reason
he is elder to me. He came on to this world 25 years before to me, then why doesn’t
he learn how the world works. That is the irony happening to this world. I
really got pissed off. Adding to this someone gave a hint that my wife is also
into this field doing PhD, eventually he sarcastically replied that then only
your couple will be adjusted. What the sh** he thinks about himself, does no
wife can be happy with a biotech husband. Then he started giving so many
examples about how wife and husband should be. They should be like lord Rama
and goddess Sita. Sita went with Rama blindly into the forest for 12 long
years. He is thinking that even now the wife should follow the husband blindly.
Then I want to reply that wake up my guru, wives in this generation are as
smart as you. Why do they follow us, instead they will ask us to share their
path or they will create new path in which we are following. Gone are those
days were girl is married so young age and should follow husband blindly. He
continued this nonsense for another half an hour and gave some more examples
about his principles and rules. One interesting point is that he will take
blessing from his mother daily it seems, so we do take. But he want to take us
blessings falling on their feet. I strongly feel that people who does’t fall on
mothers feet will have equal love to the people who fall. I mean to say that
after all our life is a blessing from our mother, why we should take more
blessings from her by falling on their feet. Instead call them regularly and
share things you have done, give some gifts and more importantly be with them.
I always feel wrong in following tradition blindly. The other thing is am not opposing
the people who take blessings, but I hate the people who publicize their
activities. Keep it with them; instead give some positive energy to people
around you. What the use if they take blessings from mother and give negative
energy to others. The power of blessings will be lost. I would like to ask the
people who hate the other fields to be kindly keep their opinion with them,
instead try to be calm as if nothing is happen. Why do they take things that
all children they see should become software engineers? How it is possible on
earth, it is same thing like god creates only woman or men. How the world works
does if not both are created. Similarly in our world we should have all fields
and equall importance should be given to all of them.
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